The last look

Moving along the journey of life, there are many things we learn, many things we face, many thing which makes us get disheartened. But, life goes sails on and we just have to catch the swing of the tides even after getting hurt by the violent storms.
Sometimes the storms comes with huge intensity, shattering everything in the air and shaking our life like hell, and sometimes this storm comes slowly
without even showing any sign of its arrival. I would say that this slow storm is more dangerous. You don’t even get any idea that when it will come and what is it going to take away.
When we love someone so passionately, that someone becomes everything for us. We moves on to build a strong relationship with that person without even thinking that is there any future or not and just console ourselves that loves doesn’t seek any obstacle of caste, creed or etc. When we grow up to be mature we become practical for everything except just for the relation ship that we have. Loves grows more and more and more and soon they become inseparables, and accepting that one would die without the other. At the final lap if due to any reason this doesn’t happen, due to any reason, that thing is really heartbreaking. All the dreams gets destroyed suddenly, of which usually one has never even thought about. At that time all the things come into play, our family, our loved ones, our dependants and all. We are not even left with the option to end up the life, because at that time we realize that life is not of our own but for those who are actually ours. We are left with nothing then except the LAST LOOK of the love, of our life, of our last artificial smile of the crying heart.
This last look of our life [our love], we can never forget it just remains with us, sometimes to bring smiles , sometimes to bring tears which are then unstoppable.
The last look is not just of the partner in life, but it is of those who mean lot to us. It can be of those whom we loose in our life, it can be of ones parents dying in front of their eyes, and still feeling so helpless that they can’t save them.
This last look can be of ones broken dreams with which he has lived for so long.
This last look makes us very brave, and prepares us to bear all the pains and to take all the challenges in life.
Although it is very painful, but I will say, sometimes this is required to give push to ones life. Life is not just about getting everything we want, but it is also about making compromises. Just be positive and be ready to face if any negative happens.
Thus in short, Life is all about enjoying all ups and downs with our hands wide open…..

lonely kya?

I dont know why sometimes we feel lonely, why we feel bad..
There are so many things to do and so less time we actually had..
Dont know why we feel that we sont have love in the life,but actually our life is full with so much love but we fail to recognize or even fail to understand.
Rather than say that love is of different colours like pink , yellow or red,
i would say love is of different shapes circle, triangle or quad..
Its the love of our MOM that keeps us alive in those dark nine months bearing pain but feeling glad,
Its the love of dad who encourages to leave the pain of failing and try again to stand,
its love of our elder sister or brother on sharing with them all problems are actually drained,
its our younger one who always make life dynamic and behave like responsible lad..
its our friends who actually make us to think broad and handle many different problems of life which with family cant be shared...
its the love of right partner who makes us to see actual beauty of life sometimes being very happy and sometimes very sad,
but having true partner life is reallyglad..
with so many people and love all around there lot expectations and time is not enough that we have..
also there are goals and aim which is to be acieved in short spat...
So never feel that you are lonely, have nothing to do because life is actually demanding more and more,
and we are feeling lonely and bored
that means we are just losing up in the race and need more effort to get up in the pad..

I wanna be a kid again

so small to understand anything.
so small to bear any pain,
so small, that away from any gain..
so i wanna be a kid again.
wanna see dad and mom going out
and wait for then till they come.
wanna feel the pureness of the rain,
wanna touch other's heart with my innocent smile as main..
wanna cry with others when they feel any pain,
wanna be with everyone around who wanna be my domain..
I wanna love everything around and get away from the hatred chain..
wanna change this world in a happy place.. BUT cant do that..
that’s why I WANNA BE A KID AGAIN.

A TRIBUTE TO THE END

The most precious gift to us by God is “The Life” . How we got it??? What are the factors behind that ???? We can just make predictions for it, but we can not say anything for sure. But there is one question for which we are sure about, and that question is – “For what we got Life..? ”
Life is to be happy, impart happiness, to achieve all that we dream, being as satisfied as possible…..
It starts with a cry, i.e. of a little angel in the lap of a fairy whom we call “mother” , which brings happiness all around. Relatives , neighbors, and if those who are not related to the family also congratulates, gives presents, and joins the celebration actively. Wonderful environment is created and celebrations booms all around. Along with a new comer in this world, also lot of expectations, thoughts, and dreams take birth.
As life proceeds that little angel grows up to young one and makes his own dreams, policies, and beliefs…With the life moving on this young one now starts implementing all his thoughts, ideas, starts to live his way. He goes very positively and bravely even after so many obstacles and failures just thinking that “until we taste the sour failure, we cannot get the sweetness of success..” The experiences in life with time make the person very brave, intelligent, and mature. With now having his own family to support with an angel breathing in his laps the circle of life is on its quarter way. On taking all the responsibility of family and people dependant on him, makes him more intellectual, and intelligent and mature.. With the pace on time, life also never stops for anybody, now is the time when person do not think of himself but just for his loved ones i.e. his family. His life is just devoted to his people now. As time moves on, on and on the person grows old , but that doesn’t mean that the is not any worth as he was when he was young, physically he may be very weak even dependant but mentally there is no match to him. His experience with makes him a genious, and after playing so many roles in life that man is now a person who have solutions for almost all the problems that one can have.

In a life span one gains loads of experiences and knowledge. Now after the complete struggle in his life, and overcoming all the problems with his intelligence and bravery, and playing so many roles with such perfection and great understanding, now is the time when he needs rest.. And after such marvelous completion of life with that guts , the person leaves the world i.e. he is now done with the responsibilities that has been given to him by God. This occasion is also a fine occasion, this is the success of that person who has done such hard wok , supported many people, and who always wanted to make his people happy, and cant see tears in this eyes, at least not because of him.
He should be given a happy farewell instead to sad ceremonies, that usually takes place.
The soul of that feels lot pain when his people cries and are sad.
Death is the ultimate truth of life, every one has to accept so why filling any one’s end of glorious road with our tears.

THIS IS MY TRIBUTE TO THE END

Economic Recession and Us

Any change that is taking place in this world will definitely affect us in some or some other way. Major thing that happened in the world market today and that what is mattering to all the economists is this “Recession”.
Recession has not just effected the big corporate, firms etc. , but it is effecting the middleclass too who have lost lakhs of rupees in shares , and the adverse effect can be seen on the students who were just about to enter this global market but are not getting any way through to enter. Companies are just firing the employees so there is no question that they can invest on the fresh candidates by absorbing them.
Economies of many countries have crashed, and the countries which are economically sounds are trying to fight recession and trying to get over it.
We got to think intelligently to survive in this period….

I would suggest that real estate is on downfall now, invest in plots and prices will definitely rush to heights soon.

Invest in gold, try to buy gold in off season hold it, and then sell in the season of functions or weddings.

Investor, be sure that you are investing intelligently, try to invest in the corporate which are dealing with basic needs of people to be on the safer side.

Those who are already involved in some business don’t worry, and no need to back out from it if there is some downfall, try to reach for customer by advertising more without showing the fact that you are not moving in profit.

Just one good product, with fine marketing needed for it and you will be on the boom.

Fact is that Recession is the temporary phase which will be over soon, and those who can make place in the market during this period will be lot benefited otherwise getting into the well established market with so many competitors in full bloom is very tough. Government will also support the small scale industries to get into without many restrictrictions.
It is a tough time, and this is time only for the people who are actually tough, and this time will be the testing time for those who are actually passionate about anything in life.
This period only requires those people who are actually capable, and most deserving.
I will say that don’t fear the recession, live it and get most out of it. Just think broad.

Key to success

If I ask what is the key to success??? One’s definite answer would be “HARD WORK IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS…..”
We have read this in many books and even our teachers teach us that, the one who works hard, that person only gets the success.

Now the trend has changed, Hard work cannot yield us the success that we desire. I would rather say don’t word , but work smartly. The redefined is now “SMART WOT WORK IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS”
Now what does smart work mean….?
Smart work means work with minimum of physical stress and more of mental work, i.e. use of brains is superimposing the use of physical work.
Say, you worked very hard to achieve something and got the reward, but the same reward can be obtained if the deed is done at the correct time , at the place ,even with less application of hard work.
Today’s world demands mental skills more than the physical skills, because being in greater number these can be bought at cheaper price, so it is economical not to spend more on physical work.
If hard work is the only criterion than the labour which works in any construction etc. works really very hard, so doesn’t he deserve to get paid more than a person sitting on a chair and using just his mental skill for limited 8 hours. But this is not so.
Hard not only means to do all the work even at correct place and time, it also means to get work done by other when needed.
Lets take an example, there are two employs in a company, one woks very hard and he is all the doing the work prescribed to him by employer. And the other one does the same amount of work but he use to distribute the amount of work to some other persons by spending some amount of money, hence in the same meantime in which the first employs completes the prescribed task , the second employ can complete twice as much task given to him. So who is more productive for the employer??? And who must be preferred for the promotion first??? Now I think m pretty clear about my topic.
Thus I will say, mantra for success is that work should be first planned, and then some distribution must be done when necessary, and then it should be done at correct time and at the correct place.
This is what the basis of SMART WORK.
Hence “ SMART WORK IS THE KEY TO SUCCESS”

Truth and illusion

What appears to us is not always the truth and we are way apart from the true world in which we actually are. We engage ourselves in so many things, that we forget for what we actually are in this world. These things includes the social and emotional behaviors. These behaviors are so intensified , that we keep on making hallucination of various things to be actually taking place, which actually are not taking place. Let me make this point clear by taking example, a father working hard fulfilling all the needs and requirements of his child, assuming his son to be a fine human being and a successful person , and also most important , his son would support him when his old bones will get stiffed. He goes on making hallucinations that whatever he is thinking and working for, will definitely come true. Under these kind of illusions person usually forgets everything and is never ready to accept anything else, even the truth.

We have so many things in our life, or I will say there are so many barriers in between us and the truth. And these barriers do not let us move out of the vicious circle of illusions in which we are caught. Getting caught in these illusions is very easy, just leave you conscience and practical nature for sometime and you are caught. But coming out of it is one of the toughest things to do.

We often think that money makes our life very easy and money can buy everything and just keep on running after it for whole life time, and at the end we find that we lost a lot than gaining this money which is not going to accompany after one dies rather creates disputes among the relatives and successors.

These illusions are adopted as a part of marketing life too. Those who have too sell something brainwashes the other person with his tactful ways and creates an illusion that life without his product is very difficult. Hence these illusions if used tactfully can be of great use.

This illusion is such an indispensable part of life, that it makes very difficult for a person facing it to differentiate it with reality. And one goes on wasting his life on worthless things, rather than doing something constructive. One should just try to use his conscience in best possible way, and try to remain as close to the truth as much as he can, this is the only thing which can be done.

I am not saying that one should leave all the relations and leave all the responsibilities, I just want to say that truth is not what can be seen very easily and so is the life given to us by God. Don’t just waste your life on unnecessary things in life which are not going to get count at our end, rather try to do such constructive things by which one can get maximum satisfaction. Living in just a truthful manner is not possible of anyone, one got to make compromises with this truth. Thus its very illogical to think that we can live with complete truth and reality, so we should try to be maximum as possibly as close to truth and live life by applying our brains in best possible way. Because at the end nothing else but the things that we have achieved makes count and makes our live valuable.